Worst of all, she felt frightened that he'd put her at risk for HIV and other sexually transmitted infections. Women have told me that some therapists suggest they "accommodate" their husbands' sexual experimentation outside of the marriage. I fall for him, he falls for her. His father, he told me, was an alcoholic who frequently physically abused and humiliated him. All this teasing was done in jest and was just an outlet to kill the boredom during the lonely AM shift knowing full well it was basically bull-shit ramblings to a bunch of drunken masturbating perverts. Although more and more gay people are having children now, I continue to believe that we have a role in humanity that works toward the greater good of our species.
Peace and best wishes to all.
Women have told me that some therapists suggest they "accommodate" their husbands' sexual experimentation outside of the marriage. Throw in a past life of drugs and that could easily just be a 57 yo. Problems solved.
Looking for rational explanations for something that is not rational is always a frustrating process, and I believe that why we choose to love whom we love is not rational but operates on a much deeper level in our brains.